Friday, September 16, 2005

and you know what else...

I hate the idea that my family sees me now as someone from whom news has to be kept, or to whom news has to be broken gently.

4 Comments:

At Friday, September 16, 2005 11:10:00 AM, Blogger Lorem ipsum said...

Yeah. A week or two ago my mom called my husband specifically to break the news of my cousin's wife's pregnancy - not to ME, mind you, but to HIM. She has no idea how much it hurt him.

 
At Friday, September 16, 2005 12:25:00 PM, Blogger cat said...

My family doesn't even ask me how we are anymore. It sucks they wait for me to tell them and don't want to "hurt me" by asking.

It hurts more that they never ask.

 
At Friday, September 16, 2005 3:37:00 PM, Blogger Sarah said...

I agree. One of my friends goes through my husband to "break" the news to us about baby related things now. It hurts that even a close friend doesn't feel like she can talk to me.

 
At Friday, September 16, 2005 7:06:00 PM, Blogger Ann said...

I hate this to....I just hate how people make assumptions and act so differently around me now.

From reading the other posts looks like we are all in good company!!!

 

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